Let's talk about the subject of attracting women. I often get questions about how to attract women, or what to do to be able to attract women.
One common concern that guys have is how to avoid making those critical mistakes on the first date that stops ever enjoying a second date or developing a sexual relationship (rather than a friendship). I am going to discuss a few of them in this post.
Well, there are certain mistakes a guy can make. Let me summarize the most typical ones here. The most significant mistakes guys make on first dates are:
1) Talking about themselves a lot. Trying to be interesting rather than interested.
2) Not asking women questions and not listening enough.
3) Focusing too much on sex- either overtly or by innuendo.
4) Not using subtleties enough (What a woman understands)
5) Not creating sexual flow or interest.
6) Not making future. (A relationship is dependent on future.)
The first mistake that most guys make is that they go on the first date and talk everything regarding themselves, kind of strut around telling the girl that he has got this car, and he's got this job and he talks and talks and talks bragging about this and that trying to impress the girl that he is a wonderful catch.
What a girl sees is a self-centered ego maniac that's not going to be able to take care of her at all, because he is not thinking about her and does not listen to what she wants to say. Not a good relationship prospect.
Another way of saying it is that guys act as if they are very interesting. They figure they need to be interesting for a girl to be interested in them. Sorry guys, but it doesn't work that way. You need to be keen on the girl, not interesting to obtain her attention. Did you ever see two interesting people on a date. It is hilarious! They are both so busy wanting to be interesting to the other that neither has time to be interested in the other.
If you don't know what I'm speaking about, think what makes you feel better. A girl who is serious about you? Or a girl who is telling you how cool she is, how hot she is, etc, and all sorts of other interesting issues.
Interesting leads to a lot of rejections and "platonic" friendships by the way. Girls can be friends with a guy who is interesting. Why? Girls love to be amused and entertained. Interesting men are sort of like children to them. A source of non-sexual enjoyment and pleasure.
That is all we have room to talk about here, but you can get more data on the other five errors at Dating To Relating.
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